The headline should have had an exclamation point. If you know one, you know what I mean. Hello Justin Timberlake, John Travolta and Bob Marley!
Are you ready for an earful from an
eloquent, talkative, gossipy, handsome, attention-seeking man? Rainbows don’t quite cut it for the Aquarius male. Now, if you overlay that with a filter, throw some sparkles and you know what? Make it flash so intensely as to induce a seizure? Perfect! There is your Aquarius male!
How to attract an Aquarius man
Seatbelts on please - to even begin to want to be with him forever means that you know that your life will never be boring. He’s a drama king. And you either can be ok with that kind of nonstop 24-hour cycle of things going on in his life or you aren't.
There is always excitement around him. You aren’t going to be bored. Boredom goes against his spiritual beliefs.
You have to be able to live without him for short periods of time. He likes to pursue knowledge, loves to grow and will do just about anything to ensure that he’s not wasting time. That sometimes will mean that he will be off on his own adventure for a week or two. There is no changing that about him. It’s who and what he is. You have to be ok with him dipping in and out sometimes. Especially in the beginning stages of the relationship.
He loves attention. There is no greater attention seeker, male or female than the Aquarius. Hands down, he lives for it and suffers when he feels that his light is not getting the shine it deserves.
Time to share
You don’t mind that he’s talking to all the other girls in the room, do you? He’s not checking anyone out, but he can’t help but want to get to know everyone. Male and female alike. So you are going to have be ok with a dozen or so female friends. He probably speaks to each one on a regular basis and gives them the best relationship and life advice anyone ever has. And he loves it. He’s also loved for it.
The flip side to that is that he is also keenly
aware of what relationships mistakes not to make. He can be prone to moments of sheer stupidity as all of us males are but with him it’s almost sweet. You know you can’t stay angry at him, right? No one can :)
Love 2.0
Whatever your notions of love are, be prepared to have them challenged. At some point, he will introduce you to some concepts that may be difficult for you. For some, it’s about free love, for others, it’s being able to discuss all of their personal problems with an ex. One thing’s for sure, it comes from a good place in their hearts.
They rarely cheat. If they agree to being only with you, then that is what you will get. You don’t have to doubt that.
Sex can be a roller coaster. Literally. Maestros of the bedroom, limitations are for losers. Be prepared to be blown away. Especially when they feel that they can be themselves around you. He will want to try everything with you. As long as you enjoy it, he’ll enjoy you right back.
How to love an Aquarius man – Half a Sugar
He loves to be loved. Loves to be wanted. But he hates to be needed. He wants you to love and be amazed by him for who and what he is. For what he can do and what he knows. For how impressive his vocabulary is or how talented he is with a guitar. Not because you believe in soulmates and that he is the one.
He will RUN.
He’s always striving to improve himself. He wants that to be acknowledged. And for you to
love him for who he is and what he has become. He would even argue that you should love him more now simply based on the fact that he is a better human than he was yesterday; it’s a no brainer, you should love him more.
He has to know that if he screws up on Monday,
that on MONDAY you will be ok with him.
He has a very hard time dealing with the knowledge that his actions could cause you harm. He can’t deal with that kind of pressure. That you two can and will talk it out and when it’s done, it’s done. You’ll laugh about it.
He’s one of the easiest signs to work things out after a fight. Just watch for his ego.
Overt sweetness may please him initially but he will see right through it if it’s forced. Even if it’s genuine, you may be putting him ill at ease. He wants you genuine, flaws and all. He wants to know everything about you and become fascinated by it.
Honesty is the best policy with him.
Aquarius Male in Love - OPEN UP
If you’re used to keeping your cards close to your chest, be prepared to play by different rules. Aquarius men can talk up a storm but they can also be great listeners. They love a good story and are especially interested in your personal experiences, trials and your triumphs! So you will eventually tell him more than you meant to. You’re not alone.
They create their own reality.
Being around them is being drawn into their way of seeing the world. When you get a glimpse of it, it’s hard not to want to stay there. You’ll feel very comfortable around him and with him. So early on, you’ll find yourself spilling secrets. As long as he is with you, he will fiercely guard your personal life with his own.
But if something were to happen and he felt justified in seeking revenge, the gods be with ye.
There is no wrath like a woman scorned. And our dear Aquarius men can sometimes have some tendencies that by all accounts are feminine in nature. If he feels you betrayed his confidence or loyalty, he will feel justified in broadcasting your news to everyone and as many generations that follow. He can be
notorious for holding grudges. If there is an issue, deal with it sooner rather than later.
Aquarius Man’s Characteristics & Traits
He’s “one of these things is not like the other" - adventurous by default, too easily bored, always on the prowl for fun, new and exciting experiences to add to his repertoire. There is a strong sense that they have some idea of where they came from, that time on this planet is limited and they have a drive about them that says, live everyday as their last.
He’s not by nature a homebody. He will do it if it’s what gives him what he wants. Which is attention, affection and excitement. He doesn’t waste time. He knows that he only has maybe 80 to 100 years to experience everything that he has to before he’s called back home.
The Aquarius male is also keenly aware that he is special.
He lives in that knowledge every single day.
He may be a water bearer but he is also an air sign. Which makes him hard to tie down. He will always have a variety of female friends to call upon for a chat, gossip or to get his daily fix of excitement.
Dating an Aquarius Man
If you love one, it may be for a time, it may be forever. However long it is, enjoy it and live in the moment.
For the Aquarius male, there is no yesterday or tomorrow. There is only right now, in this very moment, all senses on, 100% here and now.
You have to be strong, dynamic, independent and your own person. The best way to keep an Aquarius male is to act as if you want him, love him, but don’t need him and are more than willing to let him go at a moment’s notice. Wanting him too much drives him away.
Wanting him just enough is what makes him crazy for you.
You have to at once love him but also point out his lesser flaws while laughing at his jokes about yours. He’s a Unicorn without a saddle. Riding towards his crazy rainbow to happiness. Hope on, hold on and don’t let go. Just not too tight :)
Contributing Advisor:
Divine Messenger Zuco